In many ways, we’re wired to worry because looking for what might go wrong is a survival adaptation. Our brains don’t know that many of the things we CAN worry about don’t NEED to be worried about. Training your brain to stop worrying involves building new mental habits and developing tools to better manage anxious thoughts. Here are some practical steps you can take:

Your attachment style can deeply influence how you navigate relationships, both romantic and otherwise. Attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized—are shaped by early childhood experiences but can manifest throughout adulthood. While these patterns might feel permanent, the good news is that with self-awareness and effort, attachment styles can shift toward greater security.

In relationships, emotional availability is often the cornerstone of connection, trust, and intimacy. Emotional availablity is also a part of healthy vulnerability. However, encountering someone who is emotionally unavailable can lead to confusion and frustration. But what does it really mean to be emotionally unavailable? Let’s dive into the concept and explore its causes, signs, and how to address it.

Getting angry easily can be frustrating and sometimes confusing, and it can cause relational and personal damage. Anger is a natural human emotion, but when it feels overwhelming or frequent, it’s important to understand the underlying causes and learn how to manage it effectively. By exploring what triggers your anger and adopting healthier coping mechanisms, you can regain control and improve your emotional well-being. Here are some reasons why you might be experiencing heightened anger and actionable steps to address it.

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand, manage, and express emotions effectively while also recognizing and working effectively with the emotions of others. High EQ is a critical factor in building strong relationships, excelling in your career, and maintaining overall well-being. Emotional intelligence can be improved with practice and self-awareness. Here are a few of the actionable steps to help you boost your EQ.

Insecurity can feel like a heavy burden, weighing down your self-esteem and confidence, and it can wreak havoc on your experiences and how you pursue your goals, dreams, and relationships. Insecurity often stems from fear of judgment, past experiences, or involuntary comparisons to other people. The good news is that insecurity is not permanent, and with conscious effort, you can overcome it. Here are actionable steps to help you break free from insecurity and embrace a more confident version of yourself.

It’s common to wonder whether your struggles are “serious enough” to seek professional help. Questions like, “Am I overreacting?” or “Do I really need a therapist?” often crop up when individuals are dealing with emotional or mental challenges. Self-reflection is important, and it’s also helpful to understand the situations where therapy can make a meaningful difference in your life. Of course, here’s some great news: you don’t need to be certain about needing to go to therapy. You can try therapy and see if it’s helpful to you . . . and it may surprise you in really fantastic ways. And here’s another piece of great news: if you are, in fact, “overreacting,” therapy can help you figure out why that is and how to respond differently in the future.

Worrying is a natural response to uncertainty or potential challenges, but when it becomes persistent and overwhelming, it can interfere with daily life and become an additional stress in and of itself. Many people who experience chronic worry dread the experience of worry as much if not more than what created it in the first place, especially if they experience related physical symptoms like nausea, headache, or fatigue. Constant worrying can stem from a variety of factors, ranging from personality traits to environmental stressors. Understanding the root causes can help you manage your worries more effectively and regain control over your experience.

Coping skills are strategies and techniques that individuals use to manage stress, emotions, and challenges in their daily lives. These skills are essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being, especially when facing difficult situations. Everyone experiences stress differently, so finding the right coping mechanisms that work for you is key to building resilience and navigating life's ups and downs.

Therapy is a powerful tool for self-improvement, healing, and navigating life’s internal and external challenges. However, many people hesitate to seek therapy because they’re unsure whether their issues are “bad enough” to warrant professional help; they look around and judge other people have “worse” situations or concerns, and this leads them to minimize, negate, or dismiss their own experiences and difficulties. Understanding when to seek therapy can help you take proactive steps toward mental and emotional well-being that everyone deserves.

We live in a world where comparison has become a daily ritual, whether we realize it or not. Social media, professional environments, and even casual conversations often lead us to measure our own worth against others. While it's natural to evaluate ourselves in relation to others, constant comparison can have a negative impact on our mental health, self-esteem, and overall happiness. But why do we engage in this behavior so frequently? Let’s dive into some of the psychological, social, and cultural factors that drive us to compare ourselves to others.

Choosing the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially with so many different types of therapy and specializations available. The key is to match your unique needs, challenges, and goals with the expertise of a professional. By understanding your own situation and the different approaches therapists offer, you can make a more informed decision. This blog will help you think about a few important items— related to you and potential therapists— that are helpful to know when you start looking for a therapist for the first time, to change therapists, or for a new challenge.

Behavioral activation (BA) is a therapeutic approach that helps individuals identify and engage in activities that are meaningful and rewarding, particularly when they are struggling with low mood or depression. It is rooted in the idea that our actions can influence our emotions, and by intentionally changing our behavior, we can improve our mental health. Behavioral activation is often used in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and is supported by research as an effective tool for reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety.

Exercise is widely considered an important part of a mentally and physically healthy lifestyle. It improves cardiovascular health, strengthens muscles, reduces stress, and boosts mental well-being (CDC, 2021). However, as with anything beneficial, there can be too much of a good thing. When exercise becomes excessive, compulsive, and detrimental to overall well-being, it may be considered exercise addiction. But how can you determine whether someone has crossed the line from a healthy habit into a harmful obsession? In this blog, we’ll look at some of the potential signs, causes, and possible consequences of exercise addiction.

Internal psychological conflict refers to a state of mental struggle that arises when a person experiences opposing desires, beliefs, or emotions within themselves. This inner turmoil can occur consciously or unconsciously and often impacts decision-making, behavior, and emotional well-being. Internal psychological conflict can occur as a result of confusing experiences that are difficult to reconcile, relationship difficulties, ambivalence about letting go of a desire or aspiration, and distance between reality and expectation.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely used and researched forms of psychotherapy. Known for its structured, practical, and results-oriented approach, CBT has helped countless individuals manage mental health challenges and improve their quality of life. Here’s an in-depth look at what CBT is and how it works.

In therapy sessions, CBT is often used in conjunction with other therapeutic interventions. CBT is very effective when individuals have insight about their thoughts and related feelings and behaviors, as well as coping skills development to be able to do something different with those experiences than what they were doing before.

Life can be challenging, and everyone goes through ups and downs. But how do you know when it’s time to seek professional help? Therapy is not just for moments of crisis—it can be a valuable tool for self-discovery, growth, and emotional well-being. Below are some signs and situations that might indicate you could benefit from therapy.

In life, we often encounter challenges. These can range from unexpected personal setbacks like a sudden job loss or a health issue to overwhelming events across the globe, such as natural disasters or global pandemics. There always seems to be something coming between us and serenity. Unfortunately, we’re incapable of controlling everything that comes our way, but we can develop mental health resilience—the ability to bounce back and adapt in the face of adversity. I often emphasize that resilience isn’t something you either have or don’t have; it’s a skill you can nurture over time.

In today's fast-paced world, managing emotions can sometimes feel overwhelming. Anger, in particular, is an emotion that can harm personal relationships, professional careers, and overall well-being when left unchecked. But “having anger issues” doesn’t have to be accepted as your future, even if it’s been a huge part of your past. Therapy is a powerful tool that can offer relief and a path to those seeking to manage their anger more effectively.

Remote work offers many benefits, including flexibility and freedom. However, it can also blur the lines between personal and professional life, leading to increased anxiety and stress. Setting clear boundaries is essential to maintaining mental well-being while working from home.